The Best Way to Die: A Divine Perspective

 

Death is an inevitable part of life, yet how we die—and how we perceive death—varies greatly. Recently, I had a conversation with a friend about the passing of a leader in his church fellowship. The death was sudden, accidental, and tragic. My friend believed it should be announced to the congregation just as births, promotions, and other joyful events are. I disagreed, explaining that while death itself is a transition we all must face, untimely, violent, or painful deaths—whether by accident, sickness, suicide, crime, or disaster—are not "good news" in the same way. 

 This led me to reflect: What is the best way to die? How would God or the universe want each of us to depart from this world?

 The Ideal Departure: A Peaceful Transition

 Scripture and spiritual wisdom suggest that the best way to die is: 

1. In Peace with God and Man – A life well-lived, free from unresolved bitterness, hatred, or unforgiveness, allows for a peaceful transition. (Psalm 37:37 - "Consider the blameless, observe the upright; a future awaits those who seek peace.") 

2. At the Right Time (Old and Full of Days) – The Bible celebrates those who die "old and full of years" (Genesis 25:8, Job 42:17). A long, fulfilled life is often seen as a blessing. 

3. Surrounded by Loved Ones – A gentle passing, with family and friends near, reflects a life rich in relationships and love. 

4. Without Prolonged Suffering – While some endure illnesses as tests of faith, a quick, painless departure is often seen as merciful. 

5. In Hope of Resurrection – For believers, death is not the end but a passage into eternity (1 Thessalonians 4:13-14). 

Should Tragic Deaths Be Announced Publicly?

While the church is a family and must grieve together, there is wisdom in how tragic news is shared. Unlike celebratory announcements, deaths from accidents, violence, or sudden illness carry heavy emotions. It may be more appropriate to: 

 - Inform church leaders first, allowing them to minister to the immediate family. 

- Announce with sensitivity, focusing on comfort rather than shock. 

- Offer prayer support and counseling rather than treating it as routine news. 

 

Conclusion: Preparing for the Best Exit

None of us can control how we die, but we can live in a way that ensures our departure—whenever it comes—leaves a legacy of faith, love, and peace. The best death is one where we have run our race, finished our course, and are welcomed into eternity with the words: "Well done, good and faithful servant." (Matthew 25:21). 

Instead of fearing death, let us focus on living a life that makes our final transition—whether sudden or expected—a testimony of grace. 

What do you think? How should the church handle announcements of tragic deaths? Share your thoughts.  

Silas Odanike