Passionate Love: A God-Centered Commitment for Every Season Based on a message by Rev. T.J. Oduwole

Introduction: What Does Passion Really Mean?

In our culture, “passion” is often equated with intense feelings or fleeting emotions. But passion in God’s Kingdom is deeper — it is the driving force behind unwavering commitment in our faith, relationships, and life purpose.

Christ showed us ultimate passion through His sacrifice on the cross. And just like Ruth’s courageous declaration to Naomi — “Your God will be my God” (Ruth 1:16) — we are invited to embrace a love that is purposeful, sacrificial, and enduring.

Recognizing True Passion

Passionate people radiate joy in what they do. Their commitment is evident — in worship, in service, and even in how they treat others.

“We love because He first loved us.” — 1 John 4:19.

Passion is not gender-based. Both men and women are equally capable of deep love — or, sadly, betrayal. True passion finds its foundation not in emotions but in Christ’s love.

The Foundation: God’s Love

David’s prayer in Psalm 63:1 (TPT) captures divine passion:

“O God of my life, I’m lovesick for you in this weary wilderness. I thirst with the deepest longings to love you more…”

In many cultures, love isn’t always expressed through physical affection. Yet love can still be profound — an agape love: selfless, sacrificial, and enduring.

Passionate Friendships: Lessons from David & Jonathan

David and Jonathan’s friendship stands as a biblical model of godly passion — rooted in loyalty and sacrifice rather than personal gain. Jonathan was even willing to give up his throne for David.

A true friend:

Corrects with love, not judgment.

Supports rather than backbites.

Stands present in times of need.

Passionate Love in Marriage

Marriage requires intentional passion — more than attraction, more than feelings. The Song of Solomon reminds us that godly romantic love is spiritual and deliberate.

Keys to nurturing passion in marriage:

Be consistent — nurture love daily.

Avoid deceit — remove anger, malice, and obscenity (Colossians 3:8).

Express love through actions (1 John 3:18).

Understand love languages (physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time). (Singles: physical touch outside marriage can mislead — guard your hearts!

Beware of Misplaced Passion: Infatuation vs. True Love

James 1:12-15 (MSG) warns against desires that lead to temptation:

“Temptation comes from our own desires… Don’t let anyone under pressure say, ‘God is trying to trip me up.’”

Infatuation fades; godly passion endures. Guard your heart and avoid compromising situations.

Practical Steps for Every Season

Married couples (5+ years): Evaluate your journey regularly. (Recommended reading: I Love My Spouse But… by Rev. Dr. Albert Oduwole)

Newlyweds (1–4 years): Revisit these principles often. (Recommended reading: MATRImoney by Rev. Dr. Albert Oduwole — balancing love and finances in marriage)

Singles: Build on friendship and faith — marriage is more than physical intimacy. (Recommended reading: MARRYmatics by Rev. Dr. Albert Oduwole — insights on choosing right and preparing well)

Reflection Questions

What drives my passion — fleeting desires or God’s love?

How can I demonstrate Christ-centered passion in my relationships this week?

Who in my circle needs to see this love expressed through me?

Prayer

Lord, let our relationships reflect Your love. May we enjoy — not just endure — our marriages. Keep us faithful, forgiving, and free from abuse. Make us Christ’s ambassadors in our homes. Amen.

Credit: This post is adapted from a sermon by Rev. T.J. Oduwole.

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